THE MAD HATTER

 I love hats....Kentucky Derby hats... Berets...Straw hats...Knit hats...Small hats...Large hats...hats with veils...hats made of special cloths...hats with flowers...hats with pins...hats with diamonds and pearls...Hats in every color and hats that slant and hang and move and have unique character.

Hats tell you a lot about a person. Head coverings represent your cultural...your nation...your heritage...your people...and you. 

Hats complete what you wear...tell where you're going...reveal where you work and what you do for a living...

THE MAD HATTER in Alice In Wonderland...wore a top hat that gave him an air of sophistication... In spite of his madness.

Whenever I decide to wear one of my many hats...it has to set the tone just right...the hat I wore yesterday or last week...is no longer right for the what I am about to do or go. And, I love hats because they allow me to be  different characters. Once out and about...my hat cannot get in my way...although i took 30 minutes to decide to wear it. When I realize that my hat does not suit my daily plans.....I am just like THE MAD HATTER...and now has become a distraction...instead of an expression of enjoyment.

Are you a MAD HATTER? Do you know someone who is a MAD HATTER? Hats are everything to you. Your family and friends can identify you in a large crowd by the hat you always wear. Perhaps your favorite hat is your special "good luck" thing....It may have sentimental value.....whatever makes you a MAD HATTER ....I celebrate....I say welcome to the MAD HATTER SOCIETY. Wear your hat with pride and joy. Just keep in heart and mind the MAD HATTER SOCIETY codes of etiquette...such as ...!) Never put your hat on the table where you put or eat food...( Need I say more?)...2) When at all possible do not let others, primarily strangers and dirty relatives, (sorry, had to say it)...wear your hats...unless you are able to wash them before wearing them again...3)PLEASE PLEASE WASH OR GET YOUR HATS CLEAN OR SANITIZED...4) Go without a hat once in a while...especially THE EXTREME MAD HATTERS...your head and hair need to breathe. Wearing a hat all the time...all day long...causes rubbing and breakage....hair loss and permanent hat hair. Come out, come out where ever you are...

And for those who believe that you are not a hat person...you just have not found the right style for you. Do not decide that what looks good on someone else...decide what will look good on you. Find your own style and be you. You do not have to purchase a hat that reminds you of royalty or the Kentucky Derby...Start small and start slow.   ..Ladies, visit a millinery or hat store...or learn how to wrap wonderful material into an "Erica Badu" masterpiece.Gentlemen, visit a gentlemen shop and find that one that is uniquely you....there are dozens of ways to cover your coiffure...once you discover how amazing you look and feel...you may find yourself belonging to THE MAD HATTERS SOCIETY.

FLAMES OF LOVE AND FIRE WITH PURPOSE 04/02 by Jacqueline E Rozier | Blog Talk Radio

FLAMES OF LOVE AND FIRE WITH PURPOSE 04/02 by Jacqueline E Rozier | Blog Talk Radio

FLAMES OF LOVE AND FIRE WITH PURPOSE 04/02 by Jacqueline E Rozier | Blog Talk Radio

FLAMES OF LOVE AND FIRE WITH PURPOSE 04/02 by Jacqueline E Rozier | Blog Talk Radio

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': THE OTHER CRACK!

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': THE OTHER CRACK!: I know...what a crazy title for a hair blog. THE OTHER CRACK....Allow me to set the scene. The mother spends 20 minutes looking for the comb...

THE OTHER CRACK!

I know...what a crazy title for a hair blog. THE OTHER CRACK....Allow me to set the scene. The mother spends 20 minutes looking for the comb and brush. WHY? Because her screaming little girl hates to get her done and has hidden it somewhere....she would rather be scolded and even punished...than to get her hair done. Her poor little tender head has had enough...and...so has the mother......AND......You know what I am about to say.....She, the mother, parent, guardian, hair stylist extraordinaire has had enough also and is on her way to the hair supply store to buy...."THE OTHER CRACK!.....That sodium hydroxide....that white creamy tight curl busting box of  lye and no-lye....to put on that child's hair before I lose my mind.

Now why do I call it THE OTHER CRACK? Because once you use it...you are immediately addicted....I mean the crying and screaming stops.....the hair is so easy to wash, blow dry and curl, right? And who cares that it burned while it was being applied....(BURNING A HUGE WARNING SIGN) ...( I MEAN DID ANYBODY SEE THE MALCOLM X MOVIE) ...The child's hair will never be the same ever....and I mean ever.  The original texture....no matter how beautiful it looks.....is gone forever.

The hair and scalp have been shocked into a chemical journey of.....NOW HAVING TO USE too much heat on the hair, ridiculously tight pony-tails and braids because of the slippery-ness, the heat of the sun in the summer and the cold dry air in the winter, the chemicals in the swimming pool, hats and coat collars that rub and break the hair, and most of all...lots and lots of $$$$$$$$$$$$.

And then as soon as the guilt and conviction really kicks in.... the emotional and financial weight of what it takes to grow all that chemical out.....while she is now crying and screaming about all her hair breaking off and falling out. She is like an addict...caught between a rock and a hard place.

Whether we perm, chemically curl, color or use any type of chemical in our hair.....the hardest thing is...."Do I put these chemicals in my hair for the rest of my life....or...Do I dig deep and work through the transition...to get my natural hair back.....IT IS SO HARD....once you are introduced to THE OTHER CRACK... stopping is so so hard. ***And what we put on our hair and scalp goes into our blood stream....it is not a wise thing to do....no matter how desperate you may become. Seek out a professional and discuss other alternatives.

There are better ways to help your little ladies experience an enjoyable hair moment. First, buy great hair products that support easy combing & brushing that can help get through tangles and tight curls.....Second....PLEASE INVEST IN A BLOW DRYER....Especially African Americans...( One that you hold like a brush, makes it easier to get through the hair, quickly).  My clients who have daughters told me it was the best thing they ever did. Third... braiding all the time...weakens the hair and cause circulation issues and weak edges....and Fourth, buy a satin pillow case or tie a scarf around her head while she sleeps...( Not too tight). seems like a lot of work...however, she is being well-trained to treat her hair with care, respect, and fun. Young ladies who grow up with too much focus and all kinds of challenges with her hair....are grown up ladies with the same mindsets.

Should you be a parent or guardian who has already used a straightening chemical on her child(ren)...there is hope. The process may be slow...however delivering your young lady or even yourself is worth supporting your health and finances. Need further help...Email me at rafreekah@gmail.com. Along with my 40 years of experience...I have a product called Samson's Secret to share with you...get your special code word and get a discount at www.samsonssecret.com

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': TO BANG OR NOT TO BANG

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': TO BANG OR NOT TO BANG:  This is not the song...She B___s and it is not the Big B__ Theory...this is about that little or big slice of hair hanging ever so gently d...

TO BANG OR NOT TO BANG

 This is not the song...She B___s and it is not the Big B__ Theory...this is about that little or big slice of hair hanging ever so gently down your forehead. The first thing your mother or guardian gave you to let you know that you were... she's not a boy... she's  "A girl" Bang.

And now you either love Bangs or you hate Bangs.....there is no in between....Some of us love and do both.

For the lovers of Bangs...you cut...work...curl...flat iron...tease...color...layer...that little piece of hair to perfection....and then all day long you blow...sweep...move...and push it to the side and away from your face.....or you can't wait to be home....so you can get it off of your face. And believe me I feel you...I do it all the time.   Some days a Bang is necessary to complete the "Look". And what's so awesome is...they work on all ages...and all races...and all textures.

My "No Bang Divas"....I can here you tell your stylist, friends, and that makeover expert....."Do whatever you can to make me look great....BUT...Please do not give me a Bang Like you've gone through some kind of rights of passage....and now you have the independence you have waited for all through your childhood....TO BARE FOREHEAD.        The feeling of something on your face was annoying at best. all the threats and fussing...YOUR MOTHER-STYLIST....warning you to keep your hands from touching ...this God, please get me a pair of scissors  "Masterpiece"...!

And for some of you...your prayers were answered...because one day there they were...lying right out in the open....and Snip...snip...snip you went....or sometimes allowing a sibling or friend with heart to do the re-styling for you.  So many murdered Bangs all over America...maybe even the world? Oh, I know sometimes a cut Bang was a result of just playing Hairdresser...however , I  also know that it was freedom for those who cold no longer stand those cute pieces of hair cascading down your cute little faces and foreheads.

Well, no matter how you feel about Bangs...the hair industry has made millions creating the snap on/ pin on bang for those who love to change it up...now and again. We no longer have to cut our hair in a moment of boredom...or because we want a special look at that moment. Now we have options. And Bangs are not just for little girls any more...they are for those who are young at heart.  

Finally, My beautiful ladies.....Special note: Bangs do not work when hair is not clean! So should you be a Bang Princess...please keep it clean.

Special special note: Also my Bang Princesses...Once in a while wear your hair without a Bang and see how you like it...MUST GET EYEBROWS DONE FIRST...because your eyes will be the focus and they must be absolutely gorgeous. And my No Bang Divas...wear a Bang and see how you like it....That little girl inside may be longing for the celebration of youthfulness...she has been wanting. It's all about fun, flexibility, and enjoying your hair...whether you decide

TO BANG OR NOT TO BANG.   

To keep your Bangs and your entire head of hair... strong, beautiful and well fed...consider adding Samson's Secret ( A liquid herbal food)... to your hair care products.  My family and friends can't live without. After forty years of being a Hair Treatment Specialist...I have found that...Even the best products in the world can often use a little extra something special.....Email me for your special code word at rafreekah@gmail.com...before you visit www.samsonssecret.com  

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': While in hair school, I was taught that a person ...

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe':
While in hair school, I was taught that a person ...: While in hair school, I was taught that a person with a healthy head of hair could lose as much as 20-40 pieces of hair a day. So when I wo...

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': HAIR CUT VS TRIM

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': HAIR CUT VS TRIM: You ask for a trim and now your hair is all over the salon floor....and the agonizing scream in the pit of your stomach is on its way up thr...

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': Who's The Sexiest...The Man with a Ponytail...The ...

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': Who's The Sexiest...The Man with a Ponytail...The ...: Throughout my life I have been weaken at the knees by all three types. It's probably more about that "Hey girl" smile...Those amazing dimple...

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': PUT YOUR HAIR ON VACATION

Jacqueline's Natural Hair Care Cafe': PUT YOUR HAIR ON VACATION:    For over 35 years, I've been encouraging my customers to give their hair a vacation, time off, a break and a moment to recover. We go on ...

PUT YOUR HAIR ON VACATION

   For over 35 years, I've been encouraging my customers to give their hair a vacation, time off, a break and a moment to recover.

We go on vacations to rest, recover and enjoy life a different way all the time.  At the end of the day we go to sleep. While we sleep or rest our bodies and minds are refueling , resting, and regenerating for the next day of activities.

Do you know anyone who has worn the same hairstyle for years. Think about the permanent part that has been trained to show up no matter what is done to the hair.

When we over use anything in life, we wear it down and sometimes there is no recovery. People who wear contacts often tell me they wear eye glasses to give their eyes a break, a rest. We switch around our shoes, our wardrobe, and even the furnishings in our homes. We do this for a little change, for the seasons, and especially to extend the life of the things we love..

The hair on our heads that we love, also need the same attention. Along with changing shampoos and conditioners;  PUT YOUR HAIR ON VACATION....I'm talking about a "Real Vacation. This is more than just changing your hairstyles , wearing a hat/scarf/or simply just shampooing  and letting it go. 

For almost forty years I have encouraged  women ( young and not so young) to do the same caring, just put your hair away under a hair piece, wig, braids, and even a simple ponytail will work. I strongly suggest that the conditioning and treatments you do...be even more involved and intense. It's like sending your hair on a special SCALP & HAIR RETREAT OR VACATION. The extra attention and care is to allow your hair to regain, recover, and rebuild strength, shine, vitality, elasticity, and body. 

Buy the best products you can...and feed your inner self while you rest your scalp and hair with nutrition that target scalp and hair. Also, revisit what you are eating and add more fruits and vegetables (raw food shakes) that support your scalp and hair beauty and health retreat program. Samson's Secret is one of the liquid herbal foods that targets hair care. I use it everyday. Contact me a E-mail rafreekah@gmail for a special code to get your discount.... ....before you go to www.samsonssecret.com

Who's The Sexiest...The Man with a Ponytail...The Bald Man....The Man Who Is Cut To Perfection?

Throughout my life I have been weaken at the knees by all three types. It's probably more about that "Hey girl" smile...Those amazing dimples...That look in his eyes...or the "Voice". However, for me... the way he wears his hair or does not wear his hair....completes the look.

A picture is really enhanced by the special frame that surrounds it.....so like wise the look from head to toe tells a lot about the man.

The ponytail type is usually very balanced with his male and female energy....and for sure his grooming supplies are carefully chosen to keep his locks prepared for the touch...the movement...and the "Great Hair" compliment he enjoys. 

The bald guy is usually very A typical...he like the bald eagle who likes to challenge the ponytail guy to competing for the girl. They release thick layers of male testosterone everywhere they go. And often his bite is as dangerous as his bark. 

The "I keeps a Haircut guy" is usually the ...I got this guy....very left brain....notices the details and controls the top and bottom lines. Knows where he wants most of the time and calculates every romantic move he makes....Keep your eyes on him...ladies....the suit and tie....the 5 star restaurants...the perfect gift.....and that You know what credit card.....will have you and me cashing in our good senses way before we should. 

Who ever your sexy special someone is....make sure his scalp and hair gets the best tender loving care. Should he not already be there....introduce him to organic, natural shampoos and conditioners. He may resist at first....however....I am a witness that he is quietly and secretly feeling every bit of your loving ways. Also...introduce him to some healthy foods...tell him it will make him even more Sexy.....believe me it really will. Give him a bottle of Samson's Secret....it works on all types and he will feel very Samson-like. For a special discount...Email me at rafreekah@gmail.com for your special code word.....before you go to www.samsonssecret.com

HAIR CUT VS TRIM

You ask for a trim and now your hair is all over the salon floor....and the agonizing scream in the pit of your stomach is on its way up through your throat and works its way pass  grinding teeth and ...shhhhhh.....listen for it.....there is dead silence. The next thing you hear is how it will grow back fast...or the ends were really damaged and dead.....(although when did ends become 4 inches up the hair shaft)........just asking........and the final blow you'll love it, Girl...it's all the rage, it's the latest style.

Let's take a look at grass. When grass is cut....we see lawn mower, large rakes and grass everywhere. When grass is trimmed...we see little cute cutting shears and whispers of grass lying sweetly around the end of the yard or garden. See the difference?

I use to tell my hair customers....when I trim your hair...it should be so invisible that sweeping up any hair should be optional.....I mean there is so little that  I have had many customers ask me ...."Did you cut any?"

And cutting the ends do not help the hair to grow....hair grows from the inside out and precisely from the roots.Most trims do not need to be sectioned off....however should your hair need to be sectioned...even for a trim....pay attention.....the smaller the sections the probability of you getting a hair cut is most likely. 

Always have a hair consultation with every hair appointment....even when the person has done your hair in the past......we all have those days when we are not so together......and clear communication and understanding is key.

A trim should take place often.....and a hair cut should happen when you want a style change. Enjoy your next trim or cut and keep every inch of your hair beautiful, exciting, and fun. 

Go to my email rafreekah@gmail.com...and get a special code for your discount for Samson's Secret.....a concentrated liquid food that makes hair thick, strong, and healthy.Samson's Secret can be purchased at ....www.samsonssecret.com

While in hair school, I was taught that a person with a healthy head of hair could lose as much as 20-40 pieces of hair a day. So when I would do my hair every day I would see a few strands here and a few strands there. I never saw 20-40 pieces of hair any where.
So where did this crazy hair myth come from? I’ll tell you where I believe it comes from…some ancient, made-up explanation that was suppose to explain away why someone could not fix a hair shedding problem. This is my 40 years of expert professional opinion.
No woman in her right mind would accept 20-40 pieces of her hair falling out of her head every day, especially when  hair replaces itself  every seven years. What about the women all over the world who sell their hair every year for profit.
And let me take a moment to applaud and celebrate these very unselfish women who have given us the best wigs and weaves money can buy….I’m quite sure every cancer survivor is grateful.
Ladies… please hear me…your beautiful hair does not need to end up in your brushes, sinks, and floors, everyday. A person who sheds 20-40 pieces of hair everyday needs to seek medical support.
I have done hair for almost 40 years…and I knew when my hair clients hair was very healthy…..it stayed on their heads. The 200 clients I served can testify that losing very little hair or none became natural. I taught them how to feed their hair from the inside, not just from the outside.We are everything we eat, that includes our hair. Eat crap…hair becomes crap…this is not to offend anyone.
When we go through life accepting all kinds of losses…..even hair loss…..we are not able to know when the hair loss we have is a result of something going wrong in our bodies.
When I have a client’s hair analyzed……I am always amazed to hear about all the problems that is in that person’s body. A hair analysis specialist told me that diseases in the body can be found in our hair.
Really knowing your hair is important. More than about styling, your hair can let you know why you are tired, what nutrients you are lacking, and is there any illness. You may ask…how can you tell what is going on in my body through my hair?
About 17 years ago. I had a hair client who had been getting her hair done for about a year. One day she came in for her usual customized hair herbal treatment; however that day I noticed that there was something very different about the reaction of her hair, to everything I did. I knew her hair very, very well. I suggested to her, based on my experience that her hormone system was letting me know that something was not right. I strongly persuaded her to see her OBGYN………….she did………….about two weeks later she told me the doctor found cancer somewhere in her hormone system. She was extremely grateful and could not believe that her hair could tell me something like that. Now that’s a God moment! Sometimes it’s a dis-ease going on in our bodies and other times it’s how we starve our bodies of nutrition. 
Research has proven that we are not eating enough nutrients…and I am not talking about just eating three meals a day, I’m talking about eating foods that are full of live nutrients and enzymes. Most foods taste good but have no life in it.
The body has a natural pecking order……unless there is a serious problem ….the brain, the heart and other very important organs get theirs first. The hair is last on the list, so we must feed the body enough nutrition to the root of the follicles.
Hair in your comb and brush....REALLY?
So the second truth is….you must eat foods that feed and nourish the hair….notice I did not say eat vitamin and mineral supplements, I did not say find hair growth pills or conditioners….and I did not say to eat medicinal herbs. We would need to eat too many medicinal herbs for them to work and [Warning: too many medicinal herbs are very, very harmful....can even kill you........do your own research] These are the herbs doctors are concerned about.
Eat real foods that support your health. Live foods: fruits, vegetables, grains, and proteins.
The main foods you will need to feed your hair are……….keratin or protein.
Hair must have a variety of proteins. It is very important to combine your protein sources such as peanut butter on whole wheat……….beans and brown rice……….yogurt and granola………….trail mixes with sunflower seeds and chickpeas and the list goes on.
Should you want a list of proteins that combine well please contact me at………….rafreekah@gmail.com I know it doesn’t sound very appetizing; however, to have great, sexy, strong, hair, that does not shed……..we must feed it from the inside.
Love and amazing hair

Your Hair Whisperer